tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post2562806205600512402..comments2023-04-01T03:59:45.503-07:00Comments on Justice for Vylette!: JUSTICE FOR VYLETTE!!!!!Justice for Vylette!http://www.blogger.com/profile/13355986328383007367noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-20271636538290836192022-06-23T17:11:08.860-07:002022-06-23T17:11:08.860-07:00I'm 10 yrs late reading this but your experien...I'm 10 yrs late reading this but your experience echoes what our family went through 1/1/2022. Our 17 yr old daughter lost her sweet baby boy due to placental abruption at 22 weeks gestation. I understand that abruptions are often fatal for the baby but they didn't try one single thing to save the pregnancy or Zaylin. He was born alive but passed within 15 minutes. My heart ached as I watched the doctor and staff ignore him. He tried to breathe so hard and moved his tiny arms. They didn't wrap him or turn the warmer on. The doctor never even looked at him again. Then they failed to submit his birth certificate papers. They charted that he was stillborn but I counted his heart rate immediately at birth... 134 beats per minute. Even if their protocol is to not resuscitate at 22 weeks, they could have at least told us. They also gave our daughter CYTOTEC as soon as we arrived. It's not FDA approved and we only discovered it a week later as we read the documentation in the patient portal. The doctor charted in multiple places that our daughter was 20 weeks gestation and other notes were correct at 22 weeks. They charted that we received extensive education while there but we were not told anything! At our daughter's follow up visit the doctor insisted multiple times that she start on birth control immediately. She never said one word about Zaylin or what we went through. Our daughter is now 16 weeks pregnant but this baby won't eliminate the pain, grief or trauma of losing Zaylin.eternitypsg@gmail.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13565987124157474594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-46038091507520962532019-06-14T18:26:31.636-07:002019-06-14T18:26:31.636-07:00I just came upon your page and your devastating ex...I just came upon your page and your devastating experience. I wasn't sure if commenting 7 years after the fact would be welcomed or hurtful but I felt compelled to tell you how your story touched me. After reading about your beautiful baby girl, I am reminded that we often take successful, uneventful pregnancies, labors and deliveries for granted. I worked as a nurse in the newborn nursery for 6 years. I was shocked to see how some nurses were so dismissive of laboring women's complaints. It only takes a moment to check to see what's happening or what's not happening. A reassured mama is a calm, in-control mama. An informed mama is more relaxed making labor/deliver more tolerable. I'm so sorry you didn't receive the beautiful tender experience you and Vylette deserved. I have no idea how you're doing now but I pray you have discovered a measure of comfort and strength to celebrate Vylette♡eternitypsg@gmail.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13565987124157474594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-79995824165353924282016-10-25T08:44:42.168-07:002016-10-25T08:44:42.168-07:00im so sorry for your lost this is horrible i know ...im so sorry for your lost this is horrible i know nothing i say will make you feel better but if theres anything i can do im here . im with you and i understand every little pain your feeling . Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06587634090508981549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-38319436001328737992016-10-15T16:52:20.387-07:002016-10-15T16:52:20.387-07:00I can't even imagine. I can literally feel the...I can't even imagine. I can literally feel the pain from your face in the photos. You're so strong.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10976941986502010765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-46892551115026120672016-10-15T16:51:08.353-07:002016-10-15T16:51:08.353-07:00I can't even imagine. I can literally feel the...I can't even imagine. I can literally feel the pain from your face in the photos. You're so strong.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10976941986502010765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-19957922384421645932016-10-12T23:57:32.913-07:002016-10-12T23:57:32.913-07:00Has there been any progress in the case with the l...Has there been any progress in the case with the lawyers or against the center? Yours Trulyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04567454003895395991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-4371023162145136462016-10-12T05:06:18.952-07:002016-10-12T05:06:18.952-07:00I also had a midwife through my dr.s office I did ...I also had a midwife through my dr.s office I did not want her but had no choice. I did not like!e her from the start she let me stay I lAbor for 17 hours and that was hard labor I thought I was going to die. With my 2nd child she had just went home when she got called back for me well she was going to send me home when I was 5cm diolated I refused and my son was born 30 minutes later where we lived we would never have made it back they are not all trained to do their jobs and I am so sorry for your loss I will pray that your hearts get some ease.<br />Tammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13212010929615271390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-72436299352655344062016-10-11T20:49:05.517-07:002016-10-11T20:49:05.517-07:00Your a sick person for even trying to blame the m...Your a sick person for even trying to blame the mother. You must not be A mother or father you asshole. This women lost her first child regardless the midwifes did not do there job she ask to go to the hospital and was denied by these people. Matter of fact your prob one of the women who did this to this family. Loss of a child is a terrible experience. I'm so sorry for the loss of your child... justice for vylette xoxoxox I shared your storyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12641675507535142910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-44171730814041256462016-10-11T05:25:03.427-07:002016-10-11T05:25:03.427-07:00I've been sobbing in my office as I read this ...I've been sobbing in my office as I read this story on FB. May your beautiful baby girl RIP. You are one strong lady. I am thinking of you! No one should ever have to go through what you went through. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17118665158174157577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-9859495124076141882016-10-10T00:11:13.966-07:002016-10-10T00:11:13.966-07:00So sorry that you had to experience this. I too lo...So sorry that you had to experience this. I too lost my little boy to the negligence of a health care practitioner. They had me pushing for over 4 hours and in the end my little boy starved of oxygen and died after 20 minutes of being born. It pains me to know that all it would have taken was a little blood sample during those hours and he may still be with me. 11 years it has taken me to find a way to live with the massive hole in my heart, i still struggle, and its not easy. I hope you find some comfort knowing you are not alone as for me this wasn't a spoken subject in the early days and i wish i had someone to comfort me back then. My love and thoughts are with you xxx VGreenlowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09002992014649733759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-15030295225513186302016-10-09T20:36:15.736-07:002016-10-09T20:36:15.736-07:00Agreed. You have to be able to trust what your car...Agreed. You have to be able to trust what your caregiver tells you. I chose to have all 5 of my babies at home. With midwives. And when I called them repeatedly for false labor, they still showed up within 10 minutes ready to roll. Because they loved me and my unborn babies. Mom is in no way to blame for wanting an amazing experience. And a quality midwife would have delivered that experience. Bless Vylette's sweet heart. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819286320645878001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-82097676129636585252016-10-09T20:35:04.662-07:002016-10-09T20:35:04.662-07:00Agreed. You have to be able to trust what your car...Agreed. You have to be able to trust what your caregiver tells you. I chose to have all 5 of my babies at home. With midwives. And when I called them repeatedly for false labor, they still showed up within 10 minutes ready to roll. Because they loved me and my unborn babies. Mom is in no way to blame for wanting an amazing experience. And a quality midwife would have delivered that experience. Bless Vylette's sweet heart. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819286320645878001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-11261785685354482702016-10-09T17:08:56.780-07:002016-10-09T17:08:56.780-07:00My nephew had a similar birth outcome - he was del...My nephew had a similar birth outcome - he was delivered by an OBGYN. I'm very sorry for your loss, I wouldn't wish this experience on my worst enemy. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09883418769138775070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-10070302437640331152016-10-09T10:25:09.154-07:002016-10-09T10:25:09.154-07:00I'm so very sorry for the loss of your baby gi...I'm so very sorry for the loss of your baby girl!! As a mother of 3,I couldn't even imagine the pain and heart ache you've been through.<br />I know its been some time now,I want to know if these fools are still working,has your baby and you gotten any form of justice yet?? I pray that they loose their license to deliver any more babies!! God bless you!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04606706342918069893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-64059625671662387432016-10-09T08:52:54.951-07:002016-10-09T08:52:54.951-07:00This story is absolutely terrible, but not all mid...This story is absolutely terrible, but not all midwives are like this. I had nurse midwives for my delivery at the hospital and I wouldn't choose anyone else to deliver my baby. They were absolutely amazing.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02812950562226541679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-41138950645776971332016-10-09T04:19:48.251-07:002016-10-09T04:19:48.251-07:00seriously...nobody except a real dr should be deli...seriously...nobody except a real dr should be delivering a baby...and this right here is why...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01654543666857228373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-49484089631450847802016-10-09T02:05:52.554-07:002016-10-09T02:05:52.554-07:00Jesus christ, there aren't words.
My heart bl...Jesus christ, there aren't words. <br />My heart bleeds for you. I can feel your pain through the photos and words you so bravley shared. <br />I have been scared of birth complications everytime I have been pregnant, and the fact that these fears have come true for you is horrifying. These people need to answer for this completley preventable tragedy. How these 3 "women" (and I use that term lightly) can live with themselves, I will never understand. <br />I hope your beautiful Vylette flies high and watches over you. You are so strong, so amazing. I send you every strength I have to help you fight this battle. <br />You will get justice for your perfect baby girl. The world is an unfair, cruel and cold place, but Vylette is light, warmth and hope. Her memory will help you through untill you see her again. <br />Sooooo much love to you ��<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06605671243226595064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-5050750870066612372016-10-08T22:12:21.292-07:002016-10-08T22:12:21.292-07:00I am truly sorry for your loss. I have had a simil...I am truly sorry for your loss. I have had a similar experience. I had a son who had all the same machines hooked up to him and was on a cooling pad for three days to help swelling in the brain go down. He was unfortunate as well. I held him as his heart stopped beating. This was 7 years ago this coming January. I know the pain never goes away. I now have a 1 yr old son and feel joy again. I hope and pray that you can feel the same some day if not already. Life is truly a blessing and to give life is a miracle, I hope you get your miracle.<br />FB Kryptonite KittyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15806620661755152176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-6576161447175239832016-10-08T19:35:41.193-07:002016-10-08T19:35:41.193-07:00Please tell me you seriously aren't trying to ...Please tell me you seriously aren't trying to blame this poor woman for the blatant ignorance of the medical team that she had for the death of her little girl? In that situation you have no choice but to trust what these "trained professionals" tell you. Its not her fault, it is theirs. My mother gave birth at a great hospital and yet I still almost didn't make it due to the ignorance and stubbornness of an I'll trained midwife, so don't you cars blame this poor mother for this horrible situation.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03949967036480768063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-22926898122288538102016-10-08T17:22:33.223-07:002016-10-08T17:22:33.223-07:00I know its been a few years now and I am just now ...I know its been a few years now and I am just now seeing this. I just want you to know that I am very sorry for what you and your husband had gone thru I pray that you have moved on and have started a family again. May God bless you and your family. I just became a Grandmother for the first time and I'm 57 years old I couldn't wait until this day. <br />Delphine voyageursmotelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09758884181502857989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-37804161905112929342016-10-08T06:39:55.909-07:002016-10-08T06:39:55.909-07:00I hope those horrible people get what they deserve...I hope those horrible people get what they deserve. Your precious baby should be alive today, but you're right....they killed her. My heart aches for you. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03096362919589242724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-62111251116651932472016-04-02T15:11:11.254-07:002016-04-02T15:11:11.254-07:00I am so so SO sorry this happened to you. Omg this...I am so so SO sorry this happened to you. Omg this is horrible. I came across your blog by doing research on Brooklyn Birthing Center. This is crazy and now I feel safer going elsewhere. Nothing can bring a life back and its disgusting what they did to your baby and what they put you through. It's 4 years later. I hope you got the justice you, your bf, and your baby deserve! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-16833004864120197572016-03-05T14:51:52.591-08:002016-03-05T14:51:52.591-08:00"The most important thing,
was the location ..."The most important thing,<br /> was the location of the birth,<br /> because I ignored the doctors,<br /> Vylette is not on this earth,<br /> it's impossible to bear,<br /> that my ignorance took his life,<br /> so I must place the blame,<br /> on the hired help,<br /> the midwife."<br /> <br /> <br /> <br />Rationalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11546732827993754199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-72515987855226013582014-05-31T09:55:59.724-07:002014-05-31T09:55:59.724-07:00AWAKE! SEPTEMBER 2008
A Paradise scene
Life in a ...AWAKE! SEPTEMBER 2008<br /><br />A Paradise scene<br />Life in a Restored Paradise <br />Loss our little ones is so unbearable only a mother who has had, a loss of this little ones life an future could understand I have had 2 losses please let me comfort you in what I found of what the future holds for you. Soon you will see your baby again the Bible says that God the Creator of the Heavens and the earth will give us back our dead loved one in a World Wide Resurrection, The tombs will be open and the sea will give out those dead in them you will be able to hold your baby again and nurture her and teach her about life please feel free to contact me or JW.org for more information. My heart is with you. Lory.Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01393464515334459853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5364166629599340402.post-47486871944784487972012-07-13T03:13:55.098-07:002012-07-13T03:13:55.098-07:00I think of you daily J. <3 and hugs.I think of you daily J. <3 and hugs.pathologicalphotogalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06703715545537372652noreply@blogger.com